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Poster: craven714 Date: Oct 18, 2011 9:04pm
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: About Bob / Adoption

Please, I have hangnails that cause me more pain than you.
(insert humorous tone here).
Naw man, we all have our ways. Im glad we can express
varied opinions here.

So if we go down to basic, then I get it.
'Can't you feel for someone who is going through loss? pain? rejection? dying? joy? elation?'
N0, not truly ever, but basically, yes.

Why people respond to whatever they want to respond to is
up to them. woohoo. I tend to stay away from the dead
dog and dead spouse postings. But Im all abord the adoption
train huh?
Who the fuck am I to say. Its empathy? Whatsever...
You did not cause me pain, for only I can do that.
Hell, maybe your words differ from mine. So be it.
I appreciate your opinions and posts man. I will hit ya on the downlow. peace

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Poster: micah6vs8 Date: Oct 19, 2011 4:40am
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: About Bob / Adoption

Thank God c. I was so down after your post. Frankly, in some ways, I still am, but that's my deal. I keep ruminating about your post and some things you wrote. Some images I can't get out of my head.
Since I have been on IA, I never have been as scared as I was last night and in the small hours today. Everyone's load is heavy in this life and I hate when I add to it. When you reach inside the heart of someone else it's shit you don't cavalierly mess with either way. I am going to seriously reconsider my approach here on this forum. Sometimes you get into spats, arguments, worse. That mostly counts for little. This was a whole different ballgame. A whole different league. I am truly sorry c.